One hot Ramadan day, I made my way to Jerusalem. I sat along a wall in the courtyard surrounding the Dome of the Rock. I had no idea where or what I was going to eat for iftar (breaking of the fast). Shortly after, an elderly woman sat next to me. We started up a conversation and she told me all about herself and asked me what I was doing in Palestine alone. We talked for about 30 minutes. She was about to get up.
*In Arabic*
“Where are you going?” I asked.
“To buy yogurt, dates, and water to break my fast.”
She was an old woman, and I knew she would’ve had to walk far and down many steps to get these things, so I offered to go for her.
“I can get them for you.”
“Really?”
“Yes of course!”
She put shekels in my hand and closed it. I left the courtyard to begin my search. I easily found the dates and water, but for some reason it was nearly impossible to find yogurt. I asked around and I was continuously guided further and further down the alley.
Trying to catch my breath, I asked the shopkeeper if he had any yogurt. He was full of happiness and energy.
“Why of course!”
As he was getting the yogurt from the refrigerator, he struck up a conversation, asking where I was from.
“Welcome to Jerusalem, we are so happy to have you.”
“Thank you!”
“Is this what you’re eating for iftar?”
I explained that I was buying it for an elderly woman I just met and didn’t want her to walk all that way.
“By the way, where do you recommend I eat iftar?”
“Why don’t you join my family and I for iftar? I would love for you to meet my kids.”
“Seriously?”
“Yes!”
I told him I would be right back. I delivered the goods to the woman and told her it was great chatting with her, but I had to go.
I was welcomed with open arms. I learned so much about Abu-Khadija’s family, but one of the most important things I learned was how he has been fighting the occupation by keeping his shop open.
This image is the back of Abu-Khadija’s shop. He intertied it from his father and has been protected by his family since the 1940’s. It was first an iron shop, then a dairy, a thread shop, and now finally, a grocery store. Once the establishment of Israel was implemented, Palestinian homes and shops began to be seized by the establishment in order to Judaize Jerusalem. Abu-Khadija was offered 24 million USD for his shop. He promised that it’s not for sale; it will never be for sale.
Israeli authorities closed down his shop claiming that it is a Jewish archeological site. He claimed that it’s all excuses. They’re looking for Hebrew inscriptions or historical coins. Luckily they found “la ilahailla'llah” (none has the right to be worshipped except God) engraved on the walls, but they still keep searching. He swears he would hand his shop over if they found but a Hebrew letter.
The Israelis use violence, arrest people, and impose heavy taxes and fines on Palestinians in Jerusalem. They even made Abu-Khadija pay for the “archeological studies” they carried out in his shop. He paid for the electricity and water they used. What Abu-Khadija experiences is part of the daily Palestinian struggle for those living in the vicinity of the Al-Aqsa Mosque. He says it is a duty to protect our lands and sacred sites. Abu-Khadija hopes to turn this space into a restaurant, where the needy can come eat and drink for free, and where a portion of the restaurants income will go towards the Al-Aqsa Mosque.
I will never forget the faces and hospitality of Abu-Khadija and his family.